Tuesday, January 16, 2024

14 Years, 11 Months...Concussion scare!

We started the month with our first volleyball tournament.  We went to Springfield for the 417 tournament and played against 16-year-olds. whole family was going to go but Emily got sick so she and dad stayed behind.  I was really hoping everyone could come.

I spent a lot of time with Aaron this month.  I skipped the Church Christmas dinner the next day and spent time at Aaron's.  I also went to Aaron's basketball game at Rock Bridge, hung out with him on first day of break.

The day before Christmas break during practice, Kaya and I were diving for a ball and she ended up kicking me in the head.  I ran off the court crying.  This was my third concussion in a year, and the second one in a month.  I knew there was a possibility that my volleyball career was over.  Because it is so close to the holiday, I can’t get into the doctor until after.  It is giving me some time to rest.

I hung out with Aaron the next day and didn't want to go to volleyball party at Gamma Phi Beta, where Kaya's grandma works.  Mom and Dad talked me into at least making an appearance and I had so much fun with my teammates.  They made sure to save the calm activities for when I was there.  I knew I wasn't going to spend the night, but I sure wanted to!  It was so much fun hanging out with them; I didn’t want to leave!

I decided to skip seeing Santa this year.  Emily thought it was strange that I wasn’t there.  We went to visit Great-Grandma Rose and then went to Grandma Kathy and Grandpa Tom's for Christmas.  Uncle Steve did the saran wrap ball game again and it was quite a hit! We left to go to Church’s Christmas Eve service after that.  We got to have Christmas at our house in the morning and went to Aunt Lisa's in the afternoon.  It was nice that Nana Arden actually stayed for a while!  We made a stop on the way home...to pick up my new kitten!  We struggled with the name-Shout, Turbo, but finally settled on Smudge.  We were told it was a girl, but Mom is pretty sure it is a boy.  This was confirmed later that week when he had his first vet appointment.  He also had ear mites that I got to see in the microscope-yuck!  He stays in my room with his stinky litter until he gets used to being downstairs.  But man, is he cute!

Papa Ron and Linda came for a visit to celebrate Christmas at our house one day.  I love playing games with them.  Mom took me out for Ellie Day.  She said she spent way more than she normally would on clothes for me, but also knows that I don’t have many new clothes, except for volleyball shirts.

I went to Aaron's for New Year's Eve.  Our family went to Aunt Lisa's because Jonathan was in town and we got to meet his girlfriend Nina.  She was really nice.

I finally got to have my CT scan after the new year.  I watched volleyball practice, which was hard, but I’m glad I could at least go.  Lila’s mom suggested the MU concussion clinic and I got the best news!  The neurologist said that I could have a slow start back to play, increasing the time and intensity as I went along.  I started by playing at Cedar Ridge with mom on a snow day.  We have had several late starts and more snow days from school.  This has given me some good rest so I can be at my best for the next tournament (crossing fingers!)

When I went back to school, I started my online French class.  I just wasn’t learning much in the in person class.  I learned more in one week online than I had all last semester.  This was definitely a good choice.  Dad took me to watch Aaron's basketball game.  Aaron came over another night and we got take out from George's.  Aaron ordered a cheeseburger without cheese which I thought was funny.

Exciting news-I was nominated to the courtwarming court!  My volleyball coach nominated me.  I have to raise a lot of money for St. Baldrick’s.  Mom was the second adult at youth in January.  I was upset because that was my place to enjoy without family and I wasn’t really prepared for that happening.  Lillian is working to find another second adult.  I was supposed to babysit one night for two kids from church (one being Emily's friend) but it was cancelled because of an ice storm.

Mom and I went to Kansas City to spend the night at Jill's before our Sunflower Slam tournament. I had begged the neurologist to be a serving specialist in the tournament and was given the go-ahead!  I was feeling good and ended up playing DS for the tournament. We took second place in the gold bracket!  Taylor's team was there but we didn't get to play them.  We did however, end up playing the 15-2s team and beat them pretty bad.

We were off school today for MLK Day and I spent the day at Aaron's.  I hope next month slows down just a little bit, but I’m thrilled to be back playing volleyball. 

Missouri Juniors 15-Blue

Family Christmas picture
Mo Juniors volleyball party at the sorority house





Visiting Great-grandma Rose

Snuggling on Grandma Kathy and Grandpa Tom's couch
Ahhh!  A snuggle blanket!!!
This is my spot at Christmas
Heading home from Washington
Good-bye Elmo!
There's nothing like a puppy on Christmas morning!

T Swift 1989 sweatshirt!
Athena is so tolerant
Sister Christmas gifts (Harry Potter Squishmallows)
It would be a dream to play for Nebraska!
Minute to Win it Games by Aunt Lisa

Oh please, oh please let us be getting a kitten....
Yep, we got him!
Christmas kitty
He lived in my room for a few weeks and we bonded
The Boyer girls

Celebrating New Years with Aaron


Getting ready for our Centerline tournament

Thumbs up!!!

I love meeting up with Taylor!

Sunflower Slam tournament



Peace out!
Bringing home some hardware
So stylish in the winter after a tournament
Pancake!!!

Great defensive point (and another pancake!!!)
Ping pong game at Aunt Lisa's
Exchanging sister Christmas gifts
Serve and dig
A few service aces



Friday, December 22, 2023

14 Years, 10 Months...Tons of Volleyball and Aaron time

I have had lots of volleyball this month!  I'm so happy to be playing again!  We are doing the carpool again, and mom got to drive us to JC.  We had our uniform pick up and our colors are now blue and red (although our uniforms are dark blue and light blue.) We got to have our Missouri Juniors Media Day and had some really cool pictures taken with my teammates.  Our team had a white elephant party to celebrate Christmas.  And we finally had our Battle volleyball banquet!  I didn't think it was a big deal, but it kind of was!  I got my varsity letter!

I also spent a lot of time with Aaron this month.  Mom, Aaron, his mom, and I went to the MU volleyball game and had a great time.  Aaron called out "Jennifer!" to watch both of them turn their heads.  He's been waiting forever to have the chance to do that!  One day, I went to Aaron's and then we came back to our house to hang out. He and I went to watch the Addams' Family Musical at Battle.  I went with Aaron's mom and dad to St. Louis to watch one of his basketball games and Mom took me to one of his games at Hickman.

Mom signed up to send brownies to school for the teachers and I thought it was kind of embarrassing.  Well, I accidentally forgot the brownies and felt really bad.  Mom ended up delivering them to Battle and met my counselor!  Emily stayed home sick one day and while mom was home checking on her, I texted because I was sick.  We were both exhausted right before Thanksgiving, but got better.

On my first day of Thanksgiving break, I had my well check.  I am well and no shots until I am 16!!! I also went to the mall to eat Panera with Aaron and then to his house.  Thanksgiving was great because we spent Thursday at Grandma Kathy and Grandpa Tom's house, Friday at Papa Ron and Linda's (and picked out my charms at Altemueller's) and then to Uncle Mark's.  It was so cold we decided to skip the parade.  On Saturday, we went to Aunt Lisa's and had fun playing "things".

Time is running out with Carol and Michael McEntyre at Church.  This month has been very emotional as we are saying goodbye. I got to watch Nate get baptized by both of his parents. We had a beautiful reception for McIntyre's.  Our Church hosted an Advent-ure pool party indoors and I got to work one of the games with Nate.  We had our last hanging of the green with them.  We took the Enneagram test at our last youth night.  Lillian hosted the youth Christmas party at her house.  We had a lot of fun, but it was the last time I will see Michael.  He has been such an integral part of my life, spiritually and otherwise. I can't imagine Church without him.

I have been very self-conscious with my acne lately, and Mom took me to a make up lesson at Ulta.  I was so nervous that people I know would see me.  When I felt more comfortable and she started, it was clear that she did not know what I wanted.  She was trying to cover my entire face with foundation and add color back.  In the end, I got some primer, concealer, and powder. That night, our whole family went to Aaron's to hang out and watch the Mizzou volleyball NCAA game vs. Nebraska.  They did NOT win.

A couple of other fun things...I think I finally convinced Mom and Dad to get another kitten, just for me.  Mom took Emily and me to meet a kitty at her coworker's house.  She is so cute and I want to name her Shout (to go with Twist).  I also chose to go to Aaron's house instead of the Frankenberg Christmas party.

Finally, I randomly passed out in the bathroom on November 27th.  Luckily, Dad did not have to go to work that day.  He heard a loud crash, as I hit my head on the door so hard that my earring bent.  Obviously, I have another concussion.  I wasn't able to get into the doctor that day and tried to go to school.  I did not make it.  I am calling this "Concussion 2.0."  I am hopeful that I will heal soon!

Magic Tree!!!


St. Nicholas Day
Taylor Swift ornament
Receiving my varsity letter from Coach Sammi



With Adrianna (our libero)
With Lila
Mom and Dad are always there to support me (whether I want them to be or not!)

And Emily is my biggest fan!

With Tristn
So exciting-what an honor as a freshman!
I taught Athena how to get in the backseat!
We were happy, even though Mom wasn't
Meeting Smudge
Missouri Juniors Christmas party